You’re probably wondering what I am talking about.

Previously found through digging through old Wayback Site archives of a rather NSFW site everyone is well aware of, I found this domain in their ads. With a name like “fetishhotel”, it might just perk the interest of those looking to date, screw, or otherwise commit to trying to screw someone they randomly met online.

I thought that it might be a good project to start. A dating/hookup site different from the others. Something to still keep the server bills running, yet, commit to my idea of something that can help people…make more people. Or have fun doing it. Whatever perks your interest. However, the more I thought about it…the more I thought about what I was doing with this and my actions…I realized it’s not in the best interest of anyone for a project like this to start.

My dream is to be a pioneer in the tech industry. Not just another CEO, but someone who can bring something worthwhile to the table to help everyone. I’m no dirty communist but I do believe in improving society and the world for the better. We’ve been given the gift of being able to innovate and improve not only our creations, but ourselves. We should be using this to push our species into a new era of peace and stability, not destroy it.

Through my own experiences and memories I have skimmed through, the actions I am not proud to admit I have done, and other items…I’ve come to the realization at just how screwed up a lot of what we do these days is. From the how-easy-it-is to swipe to fuck to how much we push causal sex everywhere in life…something needs to change. As humans, we should be better. While not everyone may be up for having kids, we should still commit to be better. Do better. Think better. It’s not to say you shouldn’t have sex with someone…but if you do, it should be someone you love. A member outside of your family that you wish to spend your entire life with. Someone that is always there for you, that pushes you to do better. A boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/whatever that you can say for certain, you love with all your heart.

I’ve unfortunately made one too many mistakes. Both with partners and choices. I can’t say to do as I do, but I can certainly encourage those who see this to do better then I have. I wish all those years ago that I had changed my habits online. Being a smaller child with a main goal of going to MIT someday, hacking my way through school systems, and even evading the parental control software on my computer…unfortunately eventually put me on a sideroad that came to something far worse.

In case you’re not aware of what I am talking about – porn. Pornography and casual sex I do believe to be one of our biggest problems in society. With no restrictions to it these days, I was unfortunately introduced to it at a very young age. And this is also not to say that real porn is better/worse then any others either – so is anything else you watch/see. Porn, hentai, yiff, its all the same thing.

I conclude with this: Stop your addiction to porn. Stop your addiction to casual sex. Do better. Think better. Imagine what your partner may think of you having sex with a bunch of people that you don’t know. Think about the dangers you can put yourself in with meeting random strangers for sex. The damage that pornography can do to your brain is even further…especially with manipulating your view of sex and what it should be.

I wish you the best of luck and don’t give up. I speak on this because I know what some of it is like…the damage I have seen in real time.
This isn’t just something either that happens to only straight or gay people either.
Do better. Be better. Think better. Improve the world and all that lies within it.

~Jake S. (YeehawItsJake)
https://linktr.ee/yeehawitsjakester